Have you 'Tangled' ?

Thursday, December 2, 2010


After a long day at work yesterday, my colleague and I decided to head to the movies to relax. Besides it was a Wednesday so we'd get cheap tics. Unfortunately the cinema was packed, even on a week day, then it struck us that it was school hols.

After the long dreaded queue, we finally manage to approach the counter and another dismay as the 9.00pm show was already full. The only seats available was in the first row. The next available screening time would be 11.10pm and the price pops back up to RM 10. After a few moments of contemplation, both of us decided to dive in for the screening at 11.10pm.

After wandering the malls for about 1 1/2 hours. we had no choice but to sit at McD for another 1/2 hour cause all the shops were closed by then. Finally the awaited time has arrived. We then navigated the way to the cinema with our half closed eyelids and drag our tired bodies along. We both even vowed to burn down the cinema if the animated film was a flop after all those torture of waiting. But that didn't happen cause it's the best animated film ever for both of us.

We had never laughed so hard at an animated film before. The storyline was similar to the original Rapunzel with some adaptation made. What made the whole film much more captivating would be the songs and portrays of the unique characters of the animals in the movies. If there was an award for the best character in the movie that would definitely, undeniably, unanimously be MAXIMUS.

Maximus is the captain of the Royal Palace Guard's Horse. He takes his job of capturing and hunting down criminals seriously. The humour of his character was that he is a horse which acts more like a dog. Besides, the ongoing feud with the hero of the story (Fylnn Rider) was hilarious with both of them taking occasional jabs at one another without Rapunzel knowing it. The creator has cleverly personified Maximus which makes him more adorable to the audience. I personally wouldn't mind to have a pet like Maximus who expresses his likes and dislikes in a straightforward manner.


Of course there is also Pascal, the little green chameleon and also Rapunzel's only best friend while she was locked up the tower. Pascal is also personified to have his own antics which also makes him lovable but they are more subtle compared to Maximus more domineering ones. Pascal acts as Rapunzel's consultant and guardian in which they consult matters such as: her leaving the tower and deciding if Fylnn Rider, the intruder, was a good lad or like all the evils of the world that Rapunzel's fake mother (the villain) had warned them about. He also keeps Fylnn and Maximus in line of their childish assault towards one another.

Besides those 2 eccentric characters in the story, the songs are also a plus for the movies. I've always like the songs in animated films produced by Disney and i guess there's another few hits in Tangled as well. The first would be 'healing incantation'. This is actually not a song but a few lines of words that are sung repeatedly to a very calming melody for the magical powers of Rapunzel's hair to work. The next of course would be 'Mother knows best' that i guess would set deep into the hearts of all children and mothers.

Finally for those who have not watched this film I would give them 5 out of 5 thumbs. I really strongly recommend this film to all young and old as it rejuvenates the soul.

Hm... talking about that i hope no one noticed my zombie look at work for the day. ^-^
Below are more pictures from the movies, EnJoY!!!











STOP CHILD ABUSE

Monday, November 22, 2010


"Daddy......it hurts"
My name is Chris ,
I am three,
My eyes are swollen..
I cannot see.
I must be stupid,
I must be bad,
What else could have made ,
My daddy so mad?

I wish I were better,
I wish I weren't ugly,
Then maybe my Mommy,
Would still want to hug me.

I can't do a wrong,
I can't speak at all,
Or else I'm locked up,
All day long.

When I'm awake,
I'm all alone,
The house is dark,
My folks aren't home.

When my Mom does come home,
I'll try and be nice,
So maybe I'll just get,
One whipping tonight.

I just heard a car,
My daddy is back,
From Charlie's bar

I hear him curse,
My name is called ,
I press myself,
Against the wall.

I try to hide,
From his evil eyes,
I'm so afraid now,
I'm starting to cry.

He finds me weeping,
Calls me ugly words,
He says its my fault,
He suffers at work.

He slaps and hits me,
And yells at me more,
I finally get free,
And run to the door.

He's already locked it,
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me,
Against the hard wall.

I fall to the floor,
With my bones nearly broken,
And my daddy continues,
With more bad words spoken.

'I'm sorry!', I scream,
But it's now much to late,
His face has been twisted,
Into a unimaginable shape.

The hurt and the pain,
Again and again,
O please God, have mercy!
O please let it end!

And he finally stops,
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless,
Sprawled on the floor.

My name is Chris ,
I am three,
Tonight my daddy,
Murdered me.

I guess most of you have read this heart wrenching poem before as it has been circulating in the emails for some time now. Child abuse has been ongoing everywhere and the statistics are alarming. The most unbearable type of child abuse for me would be those who physically or sexually abuse an innocent child. I really could not understand how one could bear to lay such heavy hands on a child or deflower their innocence. If you could just spare a moment to look into their pleading eyes, calling out for you to stop, I'll bet you won't have the heart to carry on.




As i quote:
While we try to teach our children all about life,
Our children teach us what life is all about.
~Angela Schwindt

Wouldn't it be better to see the smiles on their faces as it not only brightens up your day, but also lights up the whole world.



Bruises might heal, but the pain lasts forever.
STOP CHILD ABUSE!!!

unicef

Work Relations

Friday, November 19, 2010

Justice without force is powerless, force without justice is tyranny.
- Blaise Pascal-

Employer Employee Relationship?

ISO Day!!!


It's like Mary Celeste here in the office today. Of course it would be like this when there is a big banner with big prints on it, clearly announcing the the arrivals of officials for the ISO inspection.

Lie back and relax....

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

The unexpected things that happen in your life which isn't very pleasant and makes you want to pull all your hair out (argh......) yup those type..... well if you look at it at a different point of view they may not be so depressing.

I've once read a motivational book on how one can achieve a happy life is by looking at all of these unwanted events as challenges in life which god gives you in order for you to grow and be more matured and wise. Recently at lot of projects were being dumped onto me and... well.... the nice saying would be: I'm so capable that the boss entrust me with all these projects or on the other hand a mere implication that I'm the most hardworking donkey/cow who has no social life after work in the office that makes me the most appropriate candidate to dump those projects at. (Yup... i know that my description is long but that fits the bill perfectly so bear with it. ^-^ )

As i was grousing about all these and pondering if I'm the only one who is doing work in the unit worrying that in the long run I'll probably go insane or have severe depression, why not just twist my perspective a little, look at it positively and my day will become brighter. A thought then just hit me that all these tasks entrusted upon me may be god's wishes to educate me and shape me into a better person.

Hm..... now let me analyze myself.
1) I'm not that pessimistic about things anymore; at least now I'm taking things in a more positive way.
2) I'm slowly learning to lie back and relax instead of rushing to get things done way ahead of the time limit given in which does not coincide with the pace of my other colleagues. Besides, you'll get more work entrusted upon you and it'll be a never ending cycle.
3) I'm so used to being subordinate that now it gives me a chance to order people around instead, as I'm the coordinator of the project. I get to determine who does what and goes where? He He He (although I'm still being supervised by the King and Empress Dowager ^~^ but it's already an improvement)

All in all, there's nothing bad to it. we'll eventually get through it somehow so why fret? Just lie back and relax.
Now, I'll just continue doing the jobs or task given to me and completing them in time while focusing on how to further my Masters and start working on that, cause the latter would be my ultimate goal by the end of next year.

Yesterday Once More

Monday, November 8, 2010

I've been staring at my blank computer screen for some time now. To be exact it would be for almost an hour not doing anything. A lot needs to be done yet I'm not moving. It's hard to start doing anything when there is nothing to start on and yet things keep piling up in your head.

Time is slowly slipping away, every second passes me by, can't seem to be able to get a hold onto it. Not sure if i wanted to, hoping that when this day passes a new day will come and yesterday will be left to yesterday. But I forget........... that yesterdays do catch up.

I NEED TO JUMP!



SoOoOOoooOOooo really need.

You Don't Own Me - Leslie Gore

Saturday, October 16, 2010

You don't own me,
I'm not just one of your many toys
You don't own me,
don't say I can't go with other boys

And don't tell me what to do
And don't tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don't put me on display, 'cause

You don't own me,
don't try to change me in any way
You don't own me,
don't tie me down 'cause I'd never stay

Oh, I don't tell you what to say
I don't tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you

I'm young and I love to be young
I'm free and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please

(Instrumental interlude)

A-a-a-nd don't tell me what to do
Oh-h-h-h don't tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don't put me on display

I don't tell you what to say
Oh-h-h-h don't tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you

I'm young and I love to be young
(FADE)
I'm free and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want

Lie To Me

Friday, October 15, 2010



I really like this series as it opens up my knowledge on how to detect if a person is lying just through microexpressions of the face.

It begins with the story of Dr. Cal Lightman (Tim Roth) who went around the world researching microexpressions (in which you will find out in the later episodes) that was triggered by his mother's suicide. He then founded The Lightman Group, and together with a bunch of collegues, assist 3rd parties such as law enforcements in investigations to solve cases through interpreting microexpressions on the face and body language.

Throughout the whole series you will be able to pick up 1 or 2 universal signs of contempt or shame, which is humorously depicted with pictures of leaders around the world. This series is definitely a good watch but unfortunately I'm only onto season 1 and is waiting to get my hands on Season 2 and 3.

Shake it! Shake it!

Ever have the feeling that although you are surrounded by people or friends and yet you feel so alone. It's been almost a week and I still can't shake this feeling off. It's not that I don't have any companion or entertainment in life but after all that there is still a feeling of emptiness or lost somewhere tingling at the back of your mind.

There is a song titled 'leaf' by Ah Shang in which the lyrics mention that loneliness leads a person to party and all those partying is just only a bunch of lonely people. This led me to think are we partying just because we are a bunch of lonely freaks?
If yes then why are we lonely? why do we need to constantly do some daring stunt just to feel the adrenalin rush? what about just peacefully happy?

I guess this is why they say life is a journey where you experience and explore. Maybe it's time for me to explore the depths of this. Hopefully I'll be able to find what I'm looking for.

A teaser for a friend!

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

沒那麼簡單 by 黃小琥

沒那麼簡單 就能找到 聊得來的伴
尤其是在 看過了那麼多的背叛
總是不安 只好強悍
誰謀殺了我的浪漫

*沒那麼簡單 就能去愛 別的全不看
變得實際 也許好也許壞各一半
不愛孤單 一久也習慣
不用擔心誰 也不用被誰管

感覺快樂就忙東忙西
感覺累了就放空自己
別人說的話 隨便聽一聽 自己作決定
不想擁有太多情緒
一杯紅酒配電影
在周末晚上 關上了手機 舒服窩在沙發裡*

chorus:
**相愛沒有那麼容易 每個人有他的脾氣
過了愛作夢的年紀 轟轟烈烈不如平靜
幸福沒有那麼容易 才會特別讓人著迷
什麼都不懂的年紀
曾經最掏心 所以最開心 曾經**

Repeat *

Repeat ** (2x)

想念最傷心 但卻最動心 的記憶

刺猬 by 温岚

最后一抹的微笑
在转身之后
我闭上眼哭了
仅存的一点点骄傲
华丽的外表终于丢掉
很彷徨很孤单
是寂寞或悲惨
一个人该怎么办

像是刺猬般防范
伪装的勇敢
不轻易让你看穿
我以为可以很坦然
面对分开时不觉得伤感
然而将灯关上一片无声黑暗
心痛的大声呼喊

Chorus:
*我想我没那么坚强
每个女孩其实一样
渴望着爱情的好 渴望被拥抱
却都害怕爱让人受伤

承认我没那么坚强
不过是一而再的逞强
小心将情绪收藏比傻瓜还傻
刺猬的坚强全都是假象
哭吧*

像是刺猬般防范
伪装的勇敢
不轻易让你看穿
我以为可以很坦然
面对分开时不觉得伤感
然而将灯关上一片无声黑暗
心痛的大声呼喊

Repeat Chorus (2x)

Crossroads

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

They say by the time you're in your 30s, you should have acheived something in your life. Or the least is to get married and settle down for a family life. No more of those wild days in which you hop on a stranger's Harley and go for a ride. Every move that you take at this stage is of cautious and rational decision making. But what if you're still at a crossroad at the age of 30? Not knowing which way to go, no acheivements in your life (.....yet.....hopefully.......one day.......you will have........ ) Then i welcome you into 30s Mid Life Crisis.

As you age, some things tend to dawn on to you that you're not ready to accept. For instances, when you're being reffered to as an aunty rather than miss; your friends are all settling down and starting a family while you still roam the earth on your own carefreely when you know you should be settling down otherwise you'll be categorised in the high risk pregnancy group or even worse.... being labelled as old maid; supposedly has owned at least a car and a house but having none of those and am still trying to clear off your accumulated credit card bills. Haiz........ What a crisis.......

Then you will start to question yourself, doubt yourself, and eventually fear sets in. You try to keep your age a secret, ban any events or occasion that has any slightest implication of your age, apply layers and layers of moisturiser just to keep youself looking youthful. You won't even dare to think about life after 30 as you already can hardly cope with going 30.

Well you might think: single life is better as there are no commitments (lies), you have no achivements in life cause you took a longer path in which you ended up working only at the age of 24 (excuse), you can't afford a house because housing prices nowadays are insane (true..... but still an excuse) and you end up with nothing. nothing. a big No-thing.

If this is the scenario you're in then maybe you should sit down, take out a piece of paper and a pen, start jotting down plans for your future. Start with simpler goals that are able to be achieved within a short period of time and by acheiving them it leads you to acheive other bigger goals.

All being said, it's normal to have a mid life crisis. but the important things is how you get over it.